Chris,
At this point I wouldn't take anything for granted. I would install multiple oil pressure gauges throughout the system, one right at the front cover and one at the oil filter adapter block. It seems to me that there's got to be something you've overlooked. Suspect everything.
I had an oil cooling problem that I couldn't seem to get a handle on until one day I noticed the upper tank of my dual pass oil cooler was shaped differently than the other end. It was bowed outward. In this design (dual-pass), there is a dam between the inlet and outlet ports. It is a tight fit, but it isn't welded to the tank. So, when the tank bowed, it allowed most of the oil to bypass the core, essentially rendering the oil cooler useless. I installed a new oil cooler and all is well.
I tell this story to emphasize not to take anything for granted. Suspect everything, verify everything. You will find the problem hiding somewhere you never would have thought of in a million years. Think like inspector Columbo, "... just one more question, ma'am."
Mark S.