Hi Will;
Tracy has given you a good rule of thumb for sizing, so I'll just add a few comments.
First the oil cooler. It seems these days that many consider the stock oil cooler to be too restrictive and they may be right so it may be worth investigating other options, however as Tracy just mentioned, he has had good luck with the stock cooler. Which is what I like to hear as I too am using a stock cooler. If I was to change it, the replacement would have to be exactly the same size as I'm not in any mood to do more fiberglassing, painting, etc on the cowl. I believe the stock cooler did change a fair bit over the years and I'm not even sure what year mine was from, but there could be some variation in stock coolers that you may have to consider.
Rads have also changed in preference over the years I've been on this list. Air conditioner evaporator cores seem to have fallen out of favor, but at one time they were quite commonly used likely due to the ease of mounting them directly behind the air inlets on either side of the ever popular RV aircraft and similar airframes. Which is exactly what I have. Tracy, Ed and others also successfully used this configuration if I recall. Tracey may add more here, but I know his RV4 Otter was cooled this way, but his higher powered 20B RV8 likely has more cooling requirements than could be provided for with these coolers.
Your airframe and it's configuration will have a large effect on your choice of cooler(s). What is that you are building? And how far along are you? I made the choice to use a rotary back when I was just building the tail feathers, so engine considerations were always on my mind throughout the building process.
You'll find on this list that nobody will tell you how you have to build your engine install, you left that behind on the other list, however asking questions, posting pics, etc will usually earn a few insightful comments. And at times when the list is quiet it helps to get us talking again.
So when you're at a stage where you can take some pics of your current install, feel free to share them.
Todd, feeling eclipse envy :-(