X-Virus-Scanned: clean according to Sophos on Logan.com Return-Path: Sender: To: lml@lancaironline.net Date: Wed, 16 Dec 2009 10:02:31 -0500 Message-ID: X-Original-Return-Path: Received: from ey-out-2122.google.com ([74.125.78.25] verified) by logan.com (CommuniGate Pro SMTP 5.3c3) with ESMTP id 4022885 for lml@lancaironline.net; Tue, 15 Dec 2009 21:17:29 -0500 Received-SPF: pass receiver=logan.com; client-ip=74.125.78.25; envelope-from=freyas.favored@gmail.com Received: by ey-out-2122.google.com with SMTP id 4so142595eyf.7 for ; Tue, 15 Dec 2009 18:16:54 -0800 (PST) DomainKey-Signature: a=rsa-sha1; c=nofws; d=gmail.com; s=gamma; h=mime-version:in-reply-to:references:date:message-id:subject:from:to :content-type:content-transfer-encoding; b=qRvUHmrRthQ02LS4DtiLTmdweNgp2h6PAwUWsluA3tKu5CZPxd52dnhF5YvrF8FQfY B14KwR/Y7j2/rECZFcoEqcydDZ+mfTAsGZzXwIytUPUXKFxO3HB6Z3BE3ghO+WVBica9 4yKnMS24ap8UKh9UdM2l2cLys2oBC0k5a3hoY= MIME-Version: 1.0 Received: by 10.216.88.2 with SMTP id z2mr154848wee.89.1260929814474; Tue, 15 Dec 2009 18:16:54 -0800 (PST) In-Reply-To: References: X-Original-Date: Tue, 15 Dec 2009 18:16:54 -0800 X-Original-Message-ID: Subject: Re: [LML] Re: Tone on list From: Kailani X-Original-To: Lancair Mailing List Content-Type: text/plain; charset=ISO-8859-1 Content-Transfer-Encoding: quoted-printable It's not about freedom to express your opinions. Honestly that's a craptastic excuse people use to be rude anymore. I have no problem whatsoever with anyone disagreeing with anything said anywhere. I have a problem with people being rude and nasty and disguising it in smarmy comments or justifying it by saying "I know this may offend some people". That's just a juvenile way of justifying being a jerk. If you are stating the facts as you see them and letting your argument rest on facts instead of opinion you don't have to qualify it with a "might offend" disclaimer. I have read this list for a long time (as stated before) and left for a bit before returning. I have always been impressed with the knowledge shared here. But when I read a member basically wishing death upon another whom they know nothing about I think a line has been crossed that should not be crossed by supposedly mature responsible adults. Again, it's not about freedom. It's about common decency. I disagree with a lot of people about a lot of things but in my wildest imagination I cannot even begin to consider saying to someone "well when you die.....insert obnoxious comment here". Not only is that nothing but posturing, it takes away any credence or respect I will put into anything that person says from that point forward. Kristy On Tue, Dec 15, 2009 at 5:41 AM, Colyn Case at earthlink wrote: > I agree with Jim mostly but I think freedom cuts both ways. > > person a says:=A0 I have done a certain thing.=A0=A0=A0 (asserts his free= dom to do a > certain thing) > > person b says: I have decided a) not to do the certain thing b) that my > doing the certain thing impacts the freedoms of others so I don't and c) = I > prefer not to fly with people that do the certain thing and=A0may even sa= y d) > I prefer that people that do certain thing are not part of my insurance > pool. > > (asserts freedoms=A0=A0(a) through (d) and points out some interconnectio= ns in > the community) > > People that are interested in defending freedom should not be offended in > the freedom's asserted by (b).