I have all the Ray Allen parts on my RV8, and an Infinity grip.
I simply used the trigger grip to switch the power supply to the trim circuits,
and the coolie hat switches grounds to the relays. I have to hold the trigger
in, then select the coolie hat for direction and axis. If a relay sticks
closed, I will end up a little out of trim, but no runaway is possible, much
like the certified setup. This system has worked well for almost 6 years now.
If your enable switches ground just like the coolie hat on most
installations, you have no protection from a stuck relay except to be really
fast pulling a breaker (unlikely I think).
John Huft
RV spy